If someone’s sexual desires are low to the point of indifference, should he or she still be open to marriage down the road? In our culture, every sexual orientation gets a label and a definition. A 26-year-old anonymous female listener has been considering those categories. She writes in to us, saying, “Hello, Pastor John! What are your thoughts on the sexual orientation category of ‘asexual’ — of people who experience no general sexual attraction to others? This seems to be me currently. Am I broken? Is something wrong with me? Or do you think in a Christian’s life this would be a God-given signal that one has the permanent gift of singleness? At first I thought so, but then I see another category for those who are ‘demisexual’ — those who experience sexual attraction to someone, but only after a close emotional connection has first formed. I think I may be asexual, but I don’t know. Perhaps I could be sexually attracted to a man later on? “In light of 1 Corinthians 7:6 6 But this I say by way of concession, not of commandment. –11, does the Bible applaud asexuality? And how should a currently asexual young woman proceed in thinking about singleness and marriage that embraces singleness and ministry opportunities, but leaves open the possibility of marriage in the future?” What would you say to this young female listener? Read or listen to this interview at our website: https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/i-feel-no-sexual-attraction-should-i-still-pursue-marriage Find other recent and popular Ask Pastor John episodes: https://www.desiringgod.org/ask-pastor-john